Fix compile issues in Windows

[pomelyu]

This PR fixes the following compile issues in windows

1. compiled_autograd.h(1143): error C2872: 'std': ambiguous symbol:

...
      muladd.cu
      tmpxft_00003960_00000000-7_muladd.cudafe1.cpp
      C:/Users/ubuntu/app/mambaforge/envs/gs/Lib/site-packages/torch/include\torch/csrc/dynamo/compiled_autograd.h(1143): error C2872: 'std': ambiguous symbol
...
Failed to build extension_cpp
error: failed-wheel-build-for-install

× Failed to build installable wheels for some pyproject.toml based projects
╰─> extension_cpp

This issue has been reported in pytorch/pytorch#173232 and pytorch/pytorch#148317. I followed the suggestion from pytorch/pytorch#148317 (comment) and added flag -DUSE_CUDA=1 to nvcc.

2. ImportError: dynamic module does not define module export function (PyInit__C):

    from pathlib import Path
>   from . import _C, ops
E   ImportError: dynamic module does not define module export function (PyInit__C)

extension_cpp\__init__.py:3: ImportError

Note: In windows, I have to install triton-windows(pip install triton-windows) to resolve the missing triton package.

Already tested in Windows11, pytorch2.11 and WSL, pytorch2.11.