Enable "RelWithDebInfo" and "MinSizeRel" configurations and support Apple debug symbols when building and linking

[kraenhansen]

Merging this PR will:

• Introduce the "RelWithDebInfo" and "MinSizeRel" configurations to cmake-rn.
• Locate and include debug symbols when creating an Xcframework.
• Start building the examples with "RelWithDebInfo".
• Rebuild any dSYM directory when linking frameworks.

[Copilot]

Pull Request Overview

This PR adds support for Apple debug symbols (dSYM) when building and linking native addons. The changes enable developers to use RelWithDebInfo and MinSizeRel build configurations, automatically locate and include debug symbols in XCFrameworks, and ensure debug symbols are properly rebuilt when frameworks are renamed during linking.

Key changes:

• Added "RelWithDebInfo" and "MinSizeRel" configuration options to cmake-rn CLI
• Enhanced XCFramework creation to detect and include dSYM files when present
• Implemented dSYM rebuilding logic in framework linking to maintain debug symbols after renaming binaries
• Updated example builds to use RelWithDebInfo configuration by default

Reviewed Changes

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File	Description
packages/cmake-rn/src/cli.ts	Expanded configuration choices to include RelWithDebInfo and MinSizeRel
packages/host/src/node/prebuilds/apple.ts	Added logic to detect and include dSYM files when creating XCFrameworks
packages/host/src/node/cli/apple.ts	Enhanced framework linking to rebuild dSYM directories after renaming binaries
packages/node-addon-examples/scripts/build-examples.mts	Updated build script to use RelWithDebInfo configuration
.changeset/*.md	Added changeset files documenting the changes

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packages/host/src/node/cli/apple.ts:198

• The linkVersionedFramework function is missing the debugSymbolsPath parameter handling that was added to linkFlatFramework. Versioned frameworks may also have debug symbols that need to be rebuilt after renaming, so this function should implement similar dSYM rebuilding logic.

export async function linkVersionedFramework({
  frameworkPath,
  newLibraryName,
}: LinkFrameworkOptions) {