fix(acp): coordinate HTTP rate-limit retries

[dbett4]

Summary

• share one process-local HTTP 429 cooldown across RestClient clones
• serialize bridge admission so queued requests re-check the gate after a peer arms it
• honor integer Retry-After hints with conservative defaults and a bounded cap
• add concurrent regression coverage for the retry-storm path

Verification

• cargo fmt --check -- crates/buzz-acp/src/relay.rs
• cargo test -p buzz-acp
• 636 unit tests and 9 lifecycle tests passed