Forced the limits of max size

[garvittsingla]

Fixes #3408

• Introduce guardrail fields in cpp/fory/serialization/config.h for maximum allowed string, list/vector, and map sizes during deserialization.
• Enforce these limits in cpp/fory/serialization/collection_serializer.h and cpp/fory/serialization/map_serializer.h.
• Return Error::invalid_data if a configured limit is exceeded when reading untrusted payloads.
• Addresses risk of large allocations from untrusted string/map/list lengths.

This change improves protocol-aware safety for C++ deserialization by preventing excessive memory usage from malicious or malformed payloads.

Related: cpp/fory/serialization/config.h:31, collection_serializer.h:396, collection_serializer.h:719, map_serializer.h:541

Done all the things as mentioned in the issue and enforced a length check

[garvittsingla]

test are failing , please help me , where am I wrong?