[CELEBORN-2349] Support worker supplied tags and TagsManager hardening

[s0nskar]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This PR lets a worker advertise tags at startup and makes tags part of WorkerInfo, so they will use existing Raft replication and worker-lifecycle cleanup. This also gel well with current implementation, allowing tags from config service to be merged with worker supplied tags.

Backward Compatible:

• The behaviour remains unchanged when no worker supplied tags are configured.
• A master-side config celeborn.tags.worker.registration.enabled (default: true), will allow to ignore worker-supplied tags.
• If worker is running on older version, worker supplied tags will be empty.

Why are the changes needed?

TagsManager today only works off the dynamic-config store. There is no way for a worker to declare its own tags. This makes this feature a little hard to use.

After this PR a worker can supply its own tags and manage its own tags lifecycle and still allow tags overriding via config service. This will make worker tags feature a lot easier to use.

Does this PR resolve a correctness bug?

• Yes

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

• Yes

How was this patch tested?

• Added Unit Tests.
• Working on end-to-end testing in local setup.

[s0nskar]

@SteNicholas can you please trigger Copilot magic on this.