full bombcell pipeline example with exposed native parameters

[Julie-Fabre]

Adds full bombcell pipeline example with exposed native parameters, unitrefine integration, and upsetplot-bombcell dependency. Work in progress.

Adding:

• Bombcell example script demonstrating the full pipeline, including configurable parameters and how to modify them.

  • This required changes to expose all parameters available in native bombcell: options to enable/disable drift and distance metrics, choice of RPV calculation method, time chunks etc.
  • adds two wrapper scripts to streamline and make parameters very apparent / easy to modify
  • Updates docs (need to check new refs for template metrics - are they all correct?)

• Switch to upsetplot-bombcell in place of upsetplot.

[chrishalcrow]

Hello, looks great. Just to say, we can have docs where you run everything locally, then upload the results. I think this is the only example: https://spikeinterface.readthedocs.io/en/stable/how_to/drift_with_lfp.html
I think it could be a good fit for this case, cause you could actually run a full pipeline from scratch (maybe on data that's available on DANDI) and discuss the results that come out.
EDIT: https://spikeinterface.readthedocs.io/en/stable/how_to/handle_drift.html another!

[Julie-Fabre]

Thanks a lot, Chris! I love that idea. I am going to work on finding a good example dataset and document a nice script describing outputs etc. That's a longer thing to do, so I'll do a separate PR soon.
For now, I think this is ready for review. Let me know what you think! In particular, I added citation info in template metric docs in references.rst. Could you check whether that looks good?