Add OpenTelemetry tracing

[AmanGIT07]

Frontier has logs and Prometheus metrics, but no request tracing. Metrics show counts and averages; they cannot show where one slow request spent its time.

What exists today

• The otelconnect interceptor already collects per-RPC metrics through the OTel SDK and exports them to Prometheus (pkg/server/server.go). Tracing is explicitly disabled there with WithoutTracing().
• Every Postgres query goes through Client.WithTimeout in pkg/db/db.go, which records Prometheus latency histograms.
• Every SpiceDB call goes through internal/store/spicedb/relation_repository.go.
• otelgrpc and otelhttp are already indirect dependencies.

Proposal

• Add an OTel TracerProvider with an OTLP exporter, configured via a new config block: enabled flag, endpoint, sampling ratio.
• Remove WithoutTracing() from the otelconnect interceptor so each RPC gets a span.
• Add child spans for Postgres queries in WithTimeout, or adopt otelsqlx (an existing TODO in pkg/db/db.go asks for this).
• Add spans for SpiceDB calls in the relation repository, or add the otelgrpc client interceptor to the SpiceDB connection.

With this, one slow request shows its timing breakdown — interceptors, each SQL query, each SpiceDB check — and traces can go to any OTLP backend.

Follow-up to #1783, where moving from New Relic to OpenTelemetry was suggested.