docs: update issue templates

Author: ryanatkn

.github/ISSUE_TEMPLATE/config.yml

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 blank_issues_enabled: false
 contact_links:
-  - name: Bug reports, feature requests, and questions!
+  - name: Questions, feature requests, problems, talk, etc
     url: https://github.com/fuzdev/gro/discussions/new/choose
-    about: Start here!
+    about: discussions

.github/ISSUE_TEMPLATE/preapproved.md

@@ -1,17 +1,8 @@
 ---
-name: For Maintainers Only
-title: wait stop, read the text below
-about: Do not use. Only for approved topics from the GitHub discussions.
+name: New issue (bugs only)
+title: (bug reports only, make a discussion for everything else)
+about: bugs
 ---
 
-**WAIT STOP!!** Read below:
-
-fuz.dev uses discussions instead of issues for its GitHub repos.
-Go to https://github.com/fuzdev/gro/discussions/new/choose
-or https://github.com/fuzdev/gro/discussions
-and close this. Thank you for contributing!
-
-Why? This keeps all issues actionable for maintainers,
-and discussions offer more affordances like voting, polls, Q&A, etc.
-
-**WAIT STOP!!** read above :)
+tip: use discussions for everything except bugs:
+https://github.com/fuzdev/gro/discussions/new/choose